Oh it is the Holiday season now, isn't it? Everyone you see this time of year is a bit happier with a more positive outlook on life, the world and their fellow man. I will always advocate this type of approach to life throughout the year; after all isn't the world a better place when we're happier and nicer to one another? However, one thing you won't catch this guy being a fan of is the frolicking that goes on at the conclusion of every NFL game these days.
Back in the 1980s or so, it seemed that the atmosphere after a professional football game ended began to change. I mean if one thinks back to just the previous decade, it was difficult for the Cowboys Roger Staubach and Washington's Chris Hamburger to muster a post-game handshake as they had a total disdain for one another. In the 1980s though, Reggie White began to make it acceptable to have both teams players (those who chose to participate) take a knee and do a little post game prayer. Since I believe in a deity myself, you will never catch me frowning on a short post game prayer.
As with any good thing, it slowly morphs into something beyond what it was originally intended to be thus from post-game prayer we got post-game chats between players. You know the old "how's the wife and kids?", "did you see that movie", "I just got a new BMW which is faster than your Mercedes"...the type of conversations that all spoiled, young, millionaires like to have with one another after work.
After this, we get to the new millennium and the NFL of today. After a game today, you have players from one team asking a player or players from another team for autographs. You don't believe me; go to Google and type in something like "Tashard Choice asking Michael Vick for an autograph". That's right, after his Dallas Cowboys lost a hard fought 30-27 game to their bitter rivals, the Philadelphia Eagles; Mr. Choice decided that he wanted Eagles quarterback Michael Vick to autograph his gloves. The vibration you are feeling right now is Tom Landry spinning in his grave!
This is just one example, it happens virtually every week, after just about every game. If one pays attention they can witness combatants on the field, coming to the center of the field all smiles regardless of the outcome of the game. I guess I can't blame these guys when I think about it; if I was 25 years old, strong as an ox and making $5mm per year to do my job- the operative word is job- then I guess I would smile when work was over too.
Sadly, as we age sports lose the innocence that they held for us in our childhood and we begin to realize that for many professional athletes it is a job, period. I know one thing is for certain around NFL stadiums on Sunday afternoons, there is far more angst and frustration for the fans when their team loses a game than there is for a player. Perhaps the reality of the preceding statement isn't true but as the old saying goes, "perception is reality", I suggest Commissioner Goodell explain this concept to his employees.